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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>Sexerati is written by Melissa Gira Grant (Dirty Girls, Best Sex Writing 2008, $pread magazine, Valleywag.com, BoundNotGagged.com, TheFrisky.com). It is mostly about sex and the internet.</description><title>Sexerati</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @sexerati)</generator><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Link</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/09/01/726/"&gt;Link&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Of course it’s great when you can turn people onto some scientific information or break through a religious charade of sexual dishonesty. Very worth it. I’ll always be happy to share the basics….&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/177237521</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/177237521</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 13:46:29 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Not Asking Men About How Often They Have Sex In the Interest Of Pageviews, but</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/23/not-asking-men-about-how-often-they-have-sex-in-the-interest-of-pageviews-but/"&gt;Not Asking Men About How Often They Have Sex In the Interest Of Pageviews, but&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Now that we’ve got some &lt;a href="http://www.theawl.com/2009/07/2-out-of-3-straight-men-have-sex-only-once-a-week-or-way-less"&gt;analysis of the sex survey results&lt;/a&gt; from the men who click over at men.style.com (spoiler: &lt;em&gt;methodology, what methodology?&lt;/em&gt;), what other beloved online publications would I…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147694247</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147694247</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 14:46:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>“Zuckerberg. Mark Zuckerberg. LOOK IT UP.”</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/23/zuckerberg-mark-zuckerberg-look-it-up/"&gt;“Zuckerberg. Mark Zuckerberg. LOOK IT UP.”&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Typical is a scene in which we see the young Mr. Zuckerberg, determined to swipe the ­member pages of a Harvard student house, sneak into the building intending to plug into its local network. But…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147590440</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147590440</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 11:45:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>And No Changes To America’s Biggest Online Sex Toy Store</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/23/and-no-changes-to-americas-biggest-online-sex-toy-store/"&gt;And No Changes To America’s Biggest Online Sex Toy Store&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-709" title="amazon chastity cage" src="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/amazon-chastity.png" alt="" width="500" height="116"/&gt;&lt;a href="http://laughingsquid.com/amazon-has-bought-zappos/"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
Amazon buys Zappos&lt;/a&gt;. No, you cannot get free returns on &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Wellness-Products/b/ref=amb_link_84361371_4?ie=UTF8&amp;node=3777371&amp;pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&amp;pf_rd_s=auto-sparkle&amp;pf_rd_r=17GH7RYB75989TZWJYFJ&amp;pf_rd_t=301&amp;pf_rd_p=477405131&amp;pf_rd_i=vibrator"&gt;Amazon purchases&lt;/a&gt; you just ‘tried on once’ at home.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147590437</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147590437</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 11:45:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>And now the media not being totally freaked out that teens use the Internet for sex ed</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/23/712/"&gt;And now the media not being totally freaked out that teens use the Internet for sex ed&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;object id="otvPlayer" width="500" height="368"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://cdn.abclocal.go.com/static/flash/embeddedPlayer/swf/otvEmLoader.swf?version=&amp;station=wls&amp;section=&amp;mediaId=6109553&amp;cdnRoot=http://cdn.abclocal.go.com&amp;webRoot=http://abclocal.go.com&amp;site="&gt;&lt;param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;embed id="otvPlayer" width="500" height="368" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" src="http://cdn.abclocal.go.com/static/flash/embeddedPlayer/swf/otvEmLoader.swf?version=&amp;station=wls&amp;section=&amp;mediaId=6109553&amp;cdnRoot=http://cdn.abclocal.go.com&amp;webRoot=http://abclocal.go.com&amp;site="&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A rare little bright wet spot in media coverage of teen sexuality, sex ed, and the internet: &lt;a href="http://scarleteen.com"&gt;Scarleteen&lt;/a&gt; and the &lt;a href="http://midwestteensexshow.com"&gt;Midwest Teen Sex Show&lt;/a&gt; get fair mentions in &lt;a href="http://abclocal.go.com/wls/video?id=6109553"&gt;this…&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147590434</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/147590434</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 11:45:10 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>“I wouldn’t kick Steve Jobs out of bed!”</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/21/i-wouldnt-kick-steve-jobs-out-of-bed/"&gt;“I wouldn’t kick Steve Jobs out of bed!”&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;“&lt;a href="http://gadgets.boingboing.net/2009/07/20/advisor.htm"&gt;It’s not romantic to have an iPhone in the bedroom&lt;/a&gt;. Brian once said that every time he goes online, he feels like he’s meeting a bunch of friends. Well, I don’t want a bunch of friends in our…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173480</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173480</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 13:08:42 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Anticipating Comedy Central’s Awkward Embrace of Teen Sex Ed</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/21/anticipating-comedy-centrals-awkward-embrace-of-teen-sex-ed/"&gt;Anticipating Comedy Central’s Awkward Embrace of Teen Sex Ed&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;embed width="500" height="280" flashvars="height=342&amp;width=609&amp;flv=http://video002.koldcast.tv/video/mtss/MTIP5_FL8_1000_640x360.flv&amp;backcolor=0x006666&amp;title=Don t Always Be There&amp;image=" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" src="http://www.koldcast.tv/koldcast_affiliate.swf"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
From a &lt;a href="http://womensmediacenter.com/ex/072009.html"&gt;19 year old fan&lt;/a&gt; on her sex education before finding &lt;a href="http://midwestteensexshow.com/"&gt;The Midwest Teen Sex Show&lt;/a&gt; (who are now off in Los Angeles shooting a pilot for Comedy Central): &lt;em&gt;“[sex education in middle and…&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173482</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173482</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 13:08:42 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Dita von Teese will have none of your being offended at pole dancing</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/21/dita-von-teese-will-have-none-of-your-being-offended-at-pole-dancing/"&gt;Dita von Teese will have none of your being offended at pole dancing&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" id="video" width="500" height="415" data="http://www.myfoxla.com/video/videoplayer.swf"&gt;&lt;param value="http://www.myfoxla.com/video/videoplayer.swf" name="movie"&gt;&lt;param value="&amp;skin=MP1ExternalAll-MFL.swf&amp;embed=true&amp;adSrc=http%3A%2F%2Fad%2Edoubleclick%2Enet%2Fadx%2Ftsg%2Ekttv%2Fwildcard%5F1%2Fdetail%3Bdcmt%3Dtext%2Fxml%3Bpos%3D%3Btile%3D2%3Bsz%3D320x240%3Bord%3D782340625904693900%3Frand%3D0%2E97561747170945&amp;flv=http%3A%2F%2Fwww%2Emyfoxla%2Ecom%2Ffeeds%2FoutboundFeed%3FobfType%3DVIDEO%5FPLAYER%5FSMIL%5FFEED%26componentId%3D130227368&amp;img=http%3A%2F%2Fmedia2%2Emyfoxla%2Ecom%2F%2Fphoto%2F2009%2F07%2F20%2FDita%5FVon%5FTeese%5F20090720135144%5F640%5F480%2EJPG&amp;story=http%3A%2F%2Fwww%2Emyfoxla%2Ecom%2Fdpp%2Fgood%5Fday%5Fla%2FDita%5FVon%5FTeese%5FIs%5FBack%5F20090720" name="FlashVars"&gt;&lt;param value="all" name="allowNetworking"&gt;&lt;param value="always" name="allowScriptAccess"&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
On a little visit to LA morning tv, Dita deftly turns the conversation away from why she’s not “offended” at people thinking she’s a stripper and towards how much success she’s…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173483</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173483</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 13:08:42 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>The fifty years of lit smut that wasn’t (thank you, Mr. Lawrence)</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/07/21/the-fifty-years-of-lit-smut-that-wasnt-thank-you-mr-lawrence/"&gt;The fifty years of lit smut that wasn’t (thank you, Mr. Lawrence)&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2009/07/21/opinion/21oped_large.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
Fifty years ago today, &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/21/opinion/21kaplan.html?emc=eta1"&gt;the US Supreme Court ruled in favor of Grove Press’ right to distribute &lt;em&gt;Lady Chatterly’s Lover&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt; — &lt;em&gt;“A novel, no matter how much devoted to the act of sex can hardly add…&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173476</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/146173476</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 13:08:41 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Porn, condoms, trouble</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/06/16/porn-condoms-trouble/"&gt;Porn, condoms, trouble&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://blog.misscalico.com/?p=892"&gt;Miss Calico&lt;/a&gt;, a BDSM porn performer and sex worker advocate, points to a adult film director &lt;a href="http://bppa.blogspot.com/2009/06/latest-hiv-in-porn-panic-rumor-control.html"&gt;Ernest Greene’s reponse&lt;/a&gt; to the coverage of a reported HIV case among US porn performers. When it comes…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/124666388</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/124666388</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 12:48:57 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>“The idea at the time that gay men would use condoms was ludicrous.”</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/06/16/the-idea-at-the-time-that-gay-men-would-use-condoms-was-ludicrous/"&gt;“The idea at the time that gay men would use condoms was ludicrous.”&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="500" height="280"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/879s0SB3MPw&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/879s0SB3MPw&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="500" height="280"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sexpositive-themovie.com/"&gt;Sex Positive&lt;/a&gt;, a documentary on the life of safer sex educator and activist Richard Berkowitz in the early days of AIDS, is out now in Manhattan. The &lt;em&gt;Times&lt;/em&gt; calls it a “&lt;a href="http://movies.nytimes.com/2009/06/12/movies/12posi.html?scp=3&amp;sq=sex&amp;st=cse"&gt;sad,…&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/124666385</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/124666385</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 12:48:57 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Art porn from your inbox by Elliott Burford</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/05/17/art-porn-from-your-inbox-by-elliott-burford/"&gt;Art porn from your inbox by Elliott Burford&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-671" title="Elliott Burford Spam Cartoons" src="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/spam-8.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="298"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://www.kottke.org/09/05/double-your-pole"&gt;kottke&lt;/a&gt; / archive at &lt;a href="http://www.geekologie.com/2009/05/email_spam_now_with_more_illus.php"&gt;geekologie&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/109116014</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/109116014</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 14:18:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Twitter, Twitter, Twitter.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/05/04/twitter-twitter-twitter/"&gt;Twitter, Twitter, Twitter.&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;“Months later: another date, another guy, another technological incompatibility. This time she was out with someone who wanted to text … everyone. ‘&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/05/03/AR2009050302184_pf.html"&gt;He kept talking about Twitter&lt;/a&gt;.’ Fishkin…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103585117</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103585117</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 23:02:57 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>The web and the death of pornographic context</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/05/04/the-web-and-the-death-of-pornographic-context/"&gt;The web and the death of pornographic context&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;The best bit of Nerve’s &lt;a href="http://www.nerve.com/regulars/singlelife/history-of-single-life-smut-goes-digital/"&gt;deceptively swift history of how sex drove the internet&lt;/a&gt;, from ARPAnet to gonzo pro/am sites: &lt;em&gt;“&lt;span class="articleText"&gt;Yet, as normalized as online pornography may be, the material itself has…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103453272</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103453272</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 17:02:51 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Link</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/05/04/658/"&gt;Link&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;More on the tech sex ed front: &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/03/fashion/03sexed.html?_r=1"&gt;The Birds and The Bees&lt;/a&gt; line, a service advertised on MySpace, where adult sex educators can answer teens’ questions via text. Predictably conservatives are throwing…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103453271</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103453271</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 17:02:51 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>1/5th of Facebook employees there to police porn</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/05/04/15th-of-facebook-employees-there-to-police-porn/"&gt;1/5th of Facebook employees there to police porn&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-652" title="facebook-porn-police" src="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/facebook-porn-police-ent-wi-horizontal1.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="295"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;A photo of a young couple sloppily making out pops onscreen. It’s gross, but not against the rules, so Axten punches a key to judge the image appropriate. Next up: a young woman in panties…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103399218</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/103399218</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 14:02:46 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>The inevitable #amazonfail infographic</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/04/14/the-inevitable-amazonfail-infographic/"&gt;The inevitable #amazonfail infographic&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-646" title="amazonfail1" src="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/amazonfail1.png" alt="" width="500" height="379"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://ncacblog.wordpress.com/2009/04/14/amazonfail-explained-in-a-flowchart/"&gt;National Coalition Against Censorship&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/96269565</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/96269565</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 19:35:35 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Eve Sedgwick, Marilyn Chambers, RIP</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/04/13/eve-sedgwick-marilyn-chambers-rip/"&gt;Eve Sedgwick, Marilyn Chambers, RIP&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="500" height="405"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/m5iLYeCD-V4&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;rel=0"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/m5iLYeCD-V4&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
Two luminaries of sex culture that I would have paid dear money to see tangle live &amp; in person on desire, performance, and politics passed away Sunday — queer theory provocateur…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/95903965</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/95903965</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:34:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Let’s not forget Jeff Bezos does like sex</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/04/13/lets-not-forget-jeff-bezos-does-like-sex/"&gt;Let’s not forget Jeff Bezos does like sex&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Here is a photo composite of &lt;a href="http://www.seattlepi.com/business/365380_theinsider02.html"&gt;Jeff “not a sexless founder-entrepreneur” Bezos on a bearskin rug&lt;/a&gt; from my Valleywag days.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Because we need this now:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img class="alignnone" title="Bearskin Bezos" src="http://valleywag.com/assets/images/valleywag/2008/06/jeff_bezos_naked_on_bear_rug.jpg" alt="" width="494" height="300"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/95880010</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/95880010</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 18:34:33 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Amazon coder: “someone internally” tagged thousands of titles “adult”</title><description>&lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/04/13/amazon-coder-someone-internally-tagged-thousands-of-titles-adult/"&gt;Amazon coder: “someone internally” tagged thousands of titles “adult”&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Frustrated with the misinformation swirling about &lt;a href="http://community.livejournal.com/brutal_honesty/3168992.htm"&gt;hackers claiming responsbility&lt;/a&gt; for &lt;a href="http://melissagira.com/sexerati/2009/04/12/updates-amazon-removing-queer-sexuality-titles-from-front-page-search/"&gt;the removal of hundreds of sexuality &amp; GLBT related titles from front page search results and the deletion of…&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/95845586</link><guid>http://sexerati.tumblr.com/post/95845586</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 16:34:26 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
